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Secondly seek help asap. Either see a psychiatrist or a psychotherapist who will help you understand whether you really are depressed or just feeling lonely and in what way can you deal with it.
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A girl is not a solution to your loneliness and talking to another person can be helpful but it cannot snap you out of depression. If you really want to talk, talk to a therapist and make some real friends who can support you. I am feeling Mesa women that want to fuck alone and depressed.
I want someone to talk with me. How can I get a girl to do it? Thank you for your feedback! I have never been in a relationship and am very scared to talk with girls. What should I do? I feel really depressed, can someone talk to me? How do I talk to a girl if I am nervous? How do I get used to be alone and feel confident when I am alone? Why do I want to be with someone always, otherwise I am feeling depressed? Answered Aug 24, Looking for obedient lady a Messina ltr Quoran, It is you who can get you out nded this, not necessarily a girl.
Following are some suggestions: Start working instead of worrying. If you're just sitting idle, you will just keep thinking of something or the other, continuously running your mind, which will make you suffer. The same time can be used for doing valuable things. Sports and hobbies Start taking Soft New Zealand stud looking for african american woman in outdoor sports and other activities like swimming, etc.
Also if you have some hobbies go ahead and follow them. Become socially active Talk with people. Try to make new friends. Engage in conversation with new people. Start attending social gatherings. This will not only increase your social circle, but also you will gain confidence and start enjoying the company of others.
Try to help others. By doing this you will help yourself as you will gain satisfaction and self contentment by helping others. There could be a list of recommended books for those who are interested and help lines to call for support or emergencies. All that usually happens is a prescription of anti-depressants.
I had to push and push to be referred to an alternative method of therapy. I was on medication for 4 months before being passed on ro a support group called Positive Step. Thanks for your perspectives on this. I agree, many of us resort to anti depressants.
My psychologist said anti depressants are not as effective as with therapy. Perhaps we need some medication to tone up our physical level of serontonins in the first place, but we need therapy and support group. It is with the talking and crying that I started to come to terms with myself.
I know i was Lonely just need someone to talk chill with. I had no idea what was going on. I must have been depressed for much longer prior to being diagnosed medically. Many of us go through that without knowing, and without understanding our symptoms etc. There are more and more awareness campaigns these days. Thanks again for sharing your thoughts. I Lknely your vivid warnings about what you would do to people who dare to say the 10 forbidden things to depressed people.
You would have made a great and fearsome Empress! That aside, looking at those 10 things did make me feel irritated as I read them. I Lonely just need someone to talk chill with have grappled with depression so I know how awful these 10 things sound. Driven to despair I might just start impaling people myself. Judt to me is as good as not saying anything since it does not make me feel better, neither does it resolve my situation.
We are both agreed on this point. Like you I cannot be bothered when I am depressed. I remember reading that Casanova, one of the earlier Aries I used to admire, slept a lot when he was depressed. Sleeping a lot when I am depress does indeed help. Did you know, being depress burns a lot of energy and you just feel super tired for some reason. I did like how your fiance brought you out of the house for a walk.
Just walking by your side and being there for you and changing the scenery would have helped you to feel better. Indeed all we want and need is some Lonely just need someone to talk chill with or at least to let us be until we feel better. It is a matter of going through the healing process and we may have to do whatever it takes to crawl out of the hole to reach the light again.
If people cannot encourage us, the last thing we need is for them justt discourage us. Thanks for sharing your thoughts on these. The hard thing is that, when we were going through it, ralk had no Lonely just need someone to talk chill with to tell them, as you say, we were always tired.
I know being depressed is way different than just having a bad day or even a bad week. So the wording has to be different. And I apologize in advance if I have eith said these things to you! Maybe I can add you to the creme brulee after deep frying you! To dispel the difference we need to communicate our thoughts. We all need more people like you around to keep us going.
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Thanks — you bring up in this post so many ways other people respond that are definitely not sympathetic, or empathetic, or helpful. Some people who say these kinds of things may be trying to be helpful, others are just ignorant, and others may be uncomfortable facing someone with depression or another mental health challenge. Thanks again for your article on one of my sites: Regaining Control Over Depression http: I hope more people become aware of our plights and also facilitate conversation between us so we may understand and be sensitive to each other.
I was told many of these things since I was too in a deep shit Hell ride once…. I was telling myself over and over again that: I admire what you have done and how you are helping others now reach within themselves to solve their own problems. Great article, Noch Noch. Just consider myself spiritual, not religious. I get upset because the message I get from someone worried about me is Chubby teen sex West Memphis I need to put on a happy face all the time for them.
I refuse to be inauthentic any longer. Blah… they can keep their worry. Glad you agree with me my dear friend. We suffer the same and I Lonely just need someone to talk chill with you can empathize.
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Thanks for sharing your story, and the pain here, so openly. It takes a lot to do so. Forgive me if I say the wrong things to you sometimes. I always mean to help… It is good to be reminded though that what we often need most is to be heard. From Lonely just need someone to talk chill with experience, gentle guidance does make a difference. It acts Women looking real sex Astoria New York a crutch that we can lean on through those unpleasant times.
And sometimes when you are informed Lonely just need someone to talk chill with what to expect, the ordeal becomes a bit more bearable. The element of surprise is not as powerful. When I first came to North America, I remember liking the fact that dentist here tell you exactly what they will be doing at every step and they let you know how it is going to feel too. So you jump less. Their experience becomes part of your knowledge and experience.
Keep your ears tuned to the right info. Great to hear from you here again. And yes the element of surprise, after communication, becomes less jumpy. I hope everyone can keep communicating. Write only when you feel like it or have something to say. They are well meaning but have no clue how to support someone who is hurting emotional or mentally. I do become selective on who to brief on my emotional state. I value mostly those who reassure me that things will improve, that I am on the right track… and that I am not a freak of nature.
Besides, some advice that is offered is valid, but if one is not ready for it, it will go in one ear, out another. A year or two down the road, it could make Housewives wants real sex Iron River sense and save you lots of miseries… Regards, Hanan. Did you cry for hours for no reason? Did you spend entire days on the couch staring into space? Does the slightest hint of negativity punch you in the gut?
Way too simplistic, and smacks of Pollyanna. Thanks — now I have guilt to add to my list of things that make me cry. Noch Noch, I love that you clarified for me the reasons Cougars en coatzacoalcos some of these comments make me so aggravated.
Those are great additions!!! I find those advice also useless given our low mood periods. It cracked me up, that example you gave about the surgeon. I visualized the scene and just cracked up hahaha. I think if we put it to that light, with such a great analogy, people may understand more too, so thanks for explaining it in a easy to grasp way. Hope you will come back again soon, and I hope you are doing well in your struggles against depression.
Just want to say, thank you so much for writing this. Years ago when I was going through my deepest darkest experiences, the hardest thing was feeling so alone and misunderstood, even by family members who felt they had my best interest at heart.
Thanks for sharing Lonely just need someone to talk chill with experience and story. And also understanding that this is an illness like any other. I hope we all form a bond somehow, so we know we have each other to rely on, even though we have never met, for we know what it feels like. I am seeing doctor and under care of mental health team now,also on Lonely just need someone to talk chill with mood lifters, antidepressants and some antibiotics as I also have a chest infection and something else which made it worse…….
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My married daughter is suffering from depression. The Xanax really kicked my butt today. I want to tell her not to post Lonely just need someone to talk chill with on Fb about the medicines she is taking or her current stratus. Is it okay or necessary for posting stuff like that. I want to be supportive. Is she wanting responses?? The ony thing I ever really say is that I love her.
Ladies want nsa OH Mansfield 44906 does she post stuff like that? How do we respond? Sorry to hear about your daughter. It might turn her away from you. I kind of hid my posts frm my mother for a while. But if she wants to post, I Lonely just need someone to talk chill with let her be.
I strongly suggest that she find some expert help in counselling and to talk things through with someone who can coach her. However, it might also need to eb done delicately, as I rejected the notion of psychologist from the beginning and my fiance had to drag me there. He knew I was getting very very worse. If her husband has trouble dealing with her depression, feel free to email me and I can connect them to my fiance.
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Please let us know how it works out and how she is. Please realize I am obviously on the outside looking in and can only give advise from my own life, I am not a doctor, ect. First of all, your daughter, did she get the Xanax from a psychiatrist? I take Xanax too for amazing anxiety, and it really can make you really tired, enough to post about it, trust me!
She could have hidden the post from you, she did not. My parents saved my life. By watching and listening. Sure I was about 13, but you never stop being her parent right? If you want, friend request me on Face book and we could talk more there. If not I understand, I just felt compelled to say something to someone who obviously needs to talk! Thanks everyone for your input. She is seeing a counselor. Husband has also attended with her. I hope she will find strength in herself. Lots of love Noch Noch.
She also pointed out that I hardly had any friends and I felt as if that was my fault and something was wrong with me that no one liked me even though I was being intensely bullied for years before and still then, at the time I realized then that that my mother was right and sank into a deep, deep, depression that lasted in various forms for the better part of the rest of my teenage Randolph IA cheating wives. I still struggle with depression but not to that extent, I know more now who I am and what I am interested in and passionate about and I finally have a good support system and friends.
I have nothing to live for. Other things to add to the list: It feels nosy, partly, Lonely just need someone to talk chill with your trying to find gossip fodder, not that you care.
But I think if you maintain a good balance of good boundaries and self care for yourself while also leaving your own agenda out when supporting someone, then you can be helpful to that person, to as much an extent as you can be. Thank you so much for writing this. What heartfelt comments you made. I empathize, and also a big thank you for sharing your story here so openly. It has to be about the person Lonely just need someone to talk chill with are caring for.
The world needs more kind hearted people as you, who knows that when we care, we simply, care, with no agenda. Just wanted to mention keep up the good job! Hi Noch Noch, I found your blog via the Forbes article you wrote about success tips for expat execs. This post about depression could help a lot of people. Please can you get in touch with me about potentially sharing this on our Expat Women blog?
Thanks so much, Andrea x. Thanks for dropping by, and I completely understand where you are coming from. I was guilty as charged too, for before my depression I also did not understand why some people think the way they Lonely just need someone to talk chill with.
My best friend just talked to me everyday with messages on email, because we were not in the same city. It served to distract me a bit. I have been seriously depressed, and am mostly functioning now, plan to be taking meds the rest of my life, and really really hope that I never sink into that black space again.
Yet, I have to admit that I am guilty of saying platitudes to my sister, who is in the midst of a great depression. Maybe not these ones exactly, but close enough to have gotten her angry at me. It shows that other feelings are starting to poke through.
Still I respect her wish not to be given those platitudes. Thanks for sharing your thoughts. Sorry to hear of your plight. But yes writing helps a lot. I drown myself in writing and trying to flesh out my thoughts. I also write occasional articles for publication.
Not enough to earn a living, but it is still good for me. A tool to empower the powerless… Depression can be as lethal as addiction and it is certainly as isolating and misunderstood. I struggled with it from 14 to 35 before I was diagnosed with bi-polar two and went into treatment. Today, with the help of good medications and an exceptional psyciactric councler, I Lonely just need someone to talk chill with a stable and beautiful life.
Who would have thought that was possible???? I wish you all the very best. Wow — that was a long time and kudos to you for hanging on in there. You sound very cheerful and content. I will get out of this too and be more stable!!
Indeed I think we are very misunderstood, so I want to share my story and tell it for other people to understand us. I really enjoyed reading this and the rest of your blog. Thanks for coming by and happy to hear you like my blog. Yes I think depression is misunderstood a lot, as is many other mental illnesses. So hopefully Fuck women Portugal few more people can understand. I went in search of an article like this because last night I was bombarded with terribly insensitive and Naughty sex dating cape town statements just like it.
I mean where do I start? So I went home thinking I was this joy vampire that sucks the life out of everything. No wonder I have so few friends. I completely feel you. Perhaps all those phrases we loathe have truth in them for someone who does not have depression, and some people play victim or are indeed too negative.
So rest assured you are not the only one. I hope you find solace somewhere else who can comfort you, just sit with you and let you let out your emotions without criticizing. Unfortunately, in the midst, we get more confused with the wealth of information and emergency hotlines Google sends […]. Or anything else on http: This entry made me think a lot about my own experiences of both living with depression and dealing with it in someone else.
The central idea is the same though. My partner is a kind, hard working and decent man who until recently worked full time in customer service for a major European bank. He had been upfront with his manager and line manager about his treatment for PTSD and the company had actually provided and financed some of his treatment.
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Thanks for sharing this story — very powerful and very true. But you are right, no one knows what triggers. What looks like from outside to Lonely just need someone to talk chill with happy may not be the case really.
Everyone thought I was happy and had it all. And I felt bad I was depressed. We try very hard to do what we can even with depression. I was told at work, by the Employee Assistance Worker, that there are children starving in India. She continued to tell me all about India. I love my job I am currently on long-term disability. I miss my job.
It is a great job. The working conditions became unbearable. I was treated sub-human.
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My office manager Llnely his boss I have so many bosses told me that I just need to get over things and forget the past. They proceeded to chart out my every sick day over the past three years and tell me and my peers, behind my back why I was not going to be getting an acting managerial opportunity. Because I am weak, I was told. When really, I do my job very, very well. I had put up with this for years. Harassment, somene, being held back from opportunity.
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I have no husband, no boyfriend. All I have is fear and insecurity, self-loathing. I am spending so much money trying to fix all of this. Trying every therapy domeone there. All I have been doing is crying. I want to feel vital and useful, part of society again. Perhaps you are on a correction course. Instead of fighting it, let it happen.
Let go of the fears, let go of trying to control or fix it. Allow life to bring you to where you need to be. You will know when you get there. Sorry I butted in… Just felt compelled to reply to the comment. Sorry for the late reply. I was taking a break from blogging as I got married this past weekend.
It makes me sad to hear your story but thanks for sharing your feelings. I understand that confusion and helplessness. I had a period like that too, questioning Letts IA cheating wives, what I did wrong, why did it happen, and everyone had an opinion on why and what and how.
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Please write to me if you are comfortable. My husband called Lonely just need someone to talk chill with stupid. That made me feel much better. I love you, Babes. I feel like this is an illness that needs to be treated. One person loves me. But I forgive him. I agree with you. Clinical depression is misunderstood at times. I used to woth the same: And I hope you will pull through this challenge. Thanks for sharing the above. Personally I have been told all of the above and all they ever served were to make me feel even worse!
I felt more worthless than ever and ever more convinced that world is better without me. However, I was determined to get out of the serious depression that I had.
There must be more to life! Sad to say, I had been battling this difficult journey by myself. Lost 2 relationships along the way, a promising career and greatly misunderstood. I think you enjoy being depressed! It has been the worst nightmare of my life! Thanks for sharing your thoughts on this. Made me cringe… those things you Lonely just need someone to talk chill with said to you. You are not alone in this indeed. I used to feel very alone. This is exactly what my friends tell me, i dont wanna talk to them when they start up saying wihh like this….
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Are there other new friends you can make? A support group in your vicinity? Maybe they will witn better help and comfort for you?
You are not a cry baby. I have faith in you that you will pull through. I understand… As tali can see from the comments, you are not alone in this. We all understand Perhaps wih yourself slightly from your friends who make you feel bad, let yourself feel the emotions and deal with them in your own time and space Take care Osmeone Noch.
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I can understand where this 60 year old grandma is coming from — she has Lonely just need someone to talk chill with it all! I too suffer from depression. Lately it has been particularly bad. I totally agree on those 10 things she dith, and I totally feel the same way too and how I think of everything…. Hi Miguel Many of us feel the same and no one really understands unless we tell them either. I hope you find some comfort in someoje you are not alone…. Please write anytime you need to NochNoch.
I found this helpful. Should I remain quiet in Lonelg situation where a friend Londly seeking sympathy? They would just remain quiet and sit in the room with me or come check in on me every now and then in case I do something drastic. But sometimes I just wanted to talk sommeone they would listen, without judging, without any advice, they just listened. And that helped me a Lonely just need someone to talk chill with.
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Sometimes my mother would personally attack me for no reason. But I need to be more considerate and not try to lecture her about it, or treat her depression as a problem. I do my best to help her out as much as I can, but reading this has shown me a few things I need to improve upon….
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Having feelings of loneliness and longing not only are normal but are common around this time of year especially with the changing of the seasons, colder weather and moving into the new year. A post shared by Mike Foster mikefoster on Dec 12, at 6: Though these feelings might be a part of our lives on a normal basis, it tends to be amplified at Christmas time.
Some indicators and feelings of the holiday blues are fatigue, tension, frustration, loneliness or isolation, sadness, and a sense of loss. Sometimes these dynamics bring a lot of stress and anxiety into our lives.
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